Wednesday, 23 May 2012

Does Age Really Matter ?

DOES AGE REALLY MATTER ???


In this land of rising sun even if I try I can’t sleep after five in the morning. Every morning brings new aspirations. Sun shines on my window pane and the fresh morning air whispers in my ears. I tie up my shoe laces and making sure that my foot steps are light enough not to wake up the neighbors, I am all set for a walk.

Cool morning air gently sways over the green paddy field. Siberian cranes who forgot their way back home wake up even earlier. Old granny shrunk with age who can hardly stand erect to see my face wishes me “ Ohayou Gojaimasu”. She is already busy with her little garden. Under the big round hat is her wrinkled beautiful face that has witnessed the changing seasons for almost a century. She is at work. I should not divert her for long and I moved ahead. The other grandma working in her field was eager to talk to me and remarked that I woke up quite early. I thought she was sarcastic. How could my young bones sleep when yours are already at work? “Youth is not about age, it is about spirit” said the women. I only had a smile to give her back. With every bit of walk and talk, with every now and then, I admit this land has something to teach me. The morning sun, cool breeze and fresh thoughts of old people of this city rejuvenate me from within.

It is not age that keeps you young. It’s the spirit within. “I can’t dress in bright colors anymore. I am over the hills”. Such stereotype still is a part of my society. Age limits people from doing what they have always opted. My Japanese language sensei, she is 73 now. But, aging just stopped for her. Wrinkles and grey hair are not the signs of aging in this case rather they are of her experiences and wisdom. I compare her enthusiasm with that of teenagers. Many things can start at late ages as not everything can be done in young life. Life is a rollercoaster. There are ups and downs. In many cases, in young age, people are occupied with family responsibilities and there are so many things that we might have wanted to do but couldn’t. Viewing with an eye of optimism, old stage is often more favorable to start up new things. Age is never a bar for those with strong will. It is never too late to learn to swim, dance or a new language. My Sensei is a forward looking person who thinks there are many things yet to learn and do. She has this quest and a strong reason to enjoy later stage of life. I have never told her but she is one of my role model. She is there to teach me Japanese language but unintentionally reveals secrets that a celebrated philosopher might have missed out in his speech on life.
To keep myself occupied I teach English Language to a lady in her mid 60s.As Japanese lack the English accent , pronouncing some words is a hard nut to crack, but she puts her full heart to pronounce words in a native style. Every time she learns a new word, I learn a new lesson.
The vibes of these positive energies that surrounds me in this city reminds me of my own grandmother. My grandmother who is a part of a different world now, used to sit in the balcony and wait for someone to come and talk to her. I knew she loved to be surrounded by people around while counting last days of life. Her hands would still rise to bless us but she could not work in garden any more. She was an inspirational person who always advised us to toil as she did all her life. Many more grandmothers in my country must be doing the same. I feel nostalgic.